Get Yourself Out There

An important lesson I learnt from reading The Complete Book of Rules years ago before I met my husband (over and over again until it was practically burned into my brain!) was to get out as often as I could to places where I could socialise with single guys.

I mean I went to everything I was invited to and I made plans with friends when there weren’t any invites. I went to the gym, on walks, out to bars, pubs and night clubs, to the shops etc… I got myself physically out of the house.

Internet dating was still somewhat in its infancy when I first learnt about The Rules (2001 – my very good friend who I lived with at the time introduced me to The Rules – she just couldn’t bear to witness the car crashes that were my love life!!!). So I didn’t use internet dating, but this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use it! My point in trying to get you out there is that you must increase your chances of meeting Mr Right at every single opportunity you can if you are serious about finding and marrying him. Optimise everything including going online. I would suggest being on multiple sites. You can perfect your Rulesy profile (make sure to follow the instructions carefully in The Rules for Online Dating! Remember Less is More!!!) on one key site like and then copy the content to others. If you have to pay for sites then include these in your monthly budget! Again, if you’re serious about finding Mr Right then treat following The Rules like a job! You want to marry your Mr Right so take this seriously!

There’s no time to waste! Start socialising both on and offline now! You may have joined in with my recent poll on FB asking you about the number of times you go out to places where single men frequent? Ellen and Sherrie suggest three times per week as an optimal amount (once per week would be an absolute minimum but we want to increase your chances remember so how wise is this?) if you’re really serious and committed to meeting your Mr Right.

Want more blogs and tips from me? I post my blog here every Monday at 7pm. I also post on Facebook three times per week – Monday (with a link to my blog), Wednesday and Friday at 7pm. You can find a link to my Facebook page below, just scroll down this page 😀⬇️ (You don’t have to be a member of Facebook to view my page.)

Have you got a difficult romantic problem and you don’t know which way to turn? Do you wonder how to apply The Rules to your specific situation? Have you had your heart broken one too many times and want to do things differently by following The Rules with the guidance of a Rules coach? I am certified as a Rules Book coach by the authors Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. I am also a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Master Practitioner. I offer a 100% money back guarantee if you are not satisfied with coaching with me. Email me at for more information or to enquire about my services. Your can also check out the services I offer here.

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