1. Last minute dates mean he’s last minute about you. You may not have been his first choice, other women he’s dated may have accepted last minute dates or he may become ambivalent about you when things are too easy. To avoid attracting guys who aren’t serious about you, politely turn down dates who do not put you first and book you in advance. Many men have come to expect last minute dates but if he’s the right guy he’ll soon figure out you’re an independent and busy woman and he has to book you ahead of time if he wants to see you. If he’s Mr Right he will feel like he may miss out on you if he doesn’t ask you out early enough.
2. If a guy ghosts he may be leading a double life. Unfortunately some men do lead double lives, there are men who are already married with a family. Or it could be that your his back up plan and he only dates you when there’s no one else on the scene. When a guy ghosts it time for you to move on.
3. You can date last minute but you will likely end up getting involved with someone who isn’t serious about you, becoming too involved, attached and wasting your time, energy and effort on a relationship that likely would’ve been better off not starting. Rules Girls don’t waste time on guys who aren’t serious about them. We move on and go on another date. Don’t be a guy’s back up plan. Only accept dates booked at least three days in advance and it must be a Saturday night date especially in the first three months (this is with the exception of a date zero).
4. Dating someone who ghosts for long periods is seriously risky because there’s a reason he disappeared. A guy who’s serious about you, has good intentions and wants to marry you would not disappear for a long period without explanation. He couldn’t bear to be apart from you for any length of time.
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